Aesthetic Sabotage | New York Wedding & Elopement Photographer

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Engagement Session: The Guide For Couples

HOW ENGAGEMENT SESSIONS INFLUENCED AESTHETIC SABOTAGE?

The usual perception of an engagement session is this: a couple in a pretty place with a photographer who gives directions and poses that are absolutely the same for every couple over and over again. First ten minutes are awkward, but you get used to a stranger with a camera, and the remaining 50 minutes are spent in the same place just changing poses, and all you hear is "show me your smiles; pretend you like each other; kiss; look at each other." Sounds bland and quite boring, right? I was that kind of photographer myself when I just started out. Again, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, and it's not a critique of anyone's work. But after a few years I came to something different. I’ve evolved. My style has changed. I believe in a more meaningful visual narrative now.

After several engagement sessions like that, I realized that this kind of directions doesn't expose the real feelings and emotions in my couples. There was a moment when I decided to go against the grain. That's why my studio is called "Aesthetic Sabotage." I encourage youto sabotage an established conception of an engagement session. Let’s create something unique and meaningful for you together.

WHAT TO EXPECT FROM A PHOTOGRAPHER AT AN ENGAGEMENT SESSION?

Before I even start sticking my lens in your face, we chat; we spend some time feeling and adjusting to each other. My goal is to make you feel comfortable before we even begin your sesh. Then I ask you to soak in the moment, enjoy the scenery around you, and forget about all the worries for the time of the session. Also, I remind you to be bold, creative and kiss your partner whenever you want without waiting for my permission ;). I encourage your passion toward each other. There will be hints and spontaneous prompts during the sesh. I will take classic portraits of you because your mom needs that photo on a fridge. But also, there will be photos that will tell everything and even more about your love. There will be photos of details that matter to you. There will be photos of your pet(s). There will be everything because everything is important. And you will be excited about your engagement photographs. And you will LOVE them.

ENGAGEMENT SESSIONS ARE AMAZING

By the end of your session you will know how everything works. You will become familiar with your photographer before your wedding. You will have an amazing experience at some lovely location with your significant other. And of course, you will receive a gallery of beautiful photos. There are so many reasons to have an engagement session! What are you waiting for?